Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Fear The Opposite Sex?

While the opposite sex can do things that will cause one to feel fear and to want to keep their distance, there is also the chance that one will feel this way no matter what they do. It is then not something that depends on how another person behaves; it is something that one experiences as a way of life.



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Are You Really Listening?

Listening to each other is critical to building and maintaining a good relationship, but listening doesn't just mean to remain quiet while the other person speaks. So what does it mean to really listen?



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The Pre-Nuptial Agreement

What is a pre-nuptial agreement? Is one necessary?



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Why Men And Women Can Never Be "Just" Friends

Is friendship possible between a man and a woman? Can a heterosexual have a best friend from the opposite-sex? What is the definition of "friend-zone"?



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Leaving For Good

Why do we find it so difficult to leave for good? Is there a method to this? There is!



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Why 'Me Time' Can Better Your Relationship

Although it may sound odd, taking time for yourself can help to improve your relationship with your partner. Some people spend so much time with their partner that they feel lost and alone when they're left alone for any period of time. And this is not healthy.



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Three's A Crowd - Keeping Your Communication Inside the Marriage

Sometimes including a third party such as a therapist can be a great resource for a couple. But when one person in a marriage constantly relies on friends and family to vent about his or her spouse, these actions only increase the emotional distance between them and their partner. Here are some of the most common people you might be tempted to "triangle" into romantic relationships. Which ones are your "go-to" third parties?



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Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Try To Impress The Opposite Sex?

It is not uncommon for someone to hear that they should just be themselves around the opposite sex or the same sex, depending on their sexual preference. And while this sounds accurate and exactly what one should be doing, it doesn't mean that this is what always happens.



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Taking a Bold Risk for the Encouragement of Another

We never know what encouragement for God we can be until we hold out a hand to the person down on life. We simply ask, "God, what would I want a person blessing me with encouragement to do?" It always becomes practical.



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Restoring the Broken Through the Encouragement of Trust

It's God's will that the broken, the damaged, the hurting be restored by his miraculous grace - a basis borne on our encouragement of trust (our faith) to trust them again. To take them at their word that they are worthy of this grace that God shed for every single one of us on Calvary.



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Do You Believe You Are Worthy of Love?

Have you ever heard yourself say, "I'm not worthy of love"? I frequently hear this from my clients. Do you find yourself in resistance to receiving love - from a person or from Spirit?



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6 Ways How You Can Deal With Negative People

Do you have friends who always complain about everything? Or do you know the perfect drama queen who always runs from one catastrophe into the other? Or the poor victim who always ends up in the dark corner left alone?



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Is Living Together a Bad Idea?

Expectation is everything when making this decision. If you choose to live together in hopes that your partner will soon come to love you enough to marry you; it's a bad idea. It suggests that you are not confident in the relationship and that you are willing to swallow your pride and put forth even more effort into making someone accept your value and love you enough.



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Emotional Texting

Are you a perpetrator of emotional texting? Do you feel like your cell phone is getting in the way of a healthy relationship relationship? Here are three simple questions you should ask yourself before you send your significant other a text



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The Law of Attraction 101

Many are finding themselves falling out of relationships and losing all sense of hope in love. A point has come when people have started questioning if love truly exists. For ages, humanity has pondered on these questions: What is love? What does it mean to love? How should one love? Perhaps a more important question is: Why does one find him/herself constantly stuck in hopeless and/or destructive relationships?



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Can't Get Your Ex Back? Try The No Contact Method

How many times have you already tried to get your ex back and have failed? Have your friends been observing this and have been telling you to give up the efforts you have been making and try the no contact method?



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Getting Over A Broken Love Relationship

Love is a beautiful thing. It brings lots of joy and happiness to those truly in it. This also brings in many future dreams and planning. It can therefore be devastating for a relationship to break as a result of different things. Most people will take ages to get over the pain that comes with the ended love, especially if they still do love the other person. It can be hard to deal with a breakup when your emotions are still tied to that person. It is therefore not a wonder that some will do crazy things just to prove a point with some even contemplating murder or suicide.



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Counselling - When It's Important Not to Know

COUNSELLORS AND MENTORS are wrong when they figure they need to know people's answers. To have the right advice given to them is not what people are after. If someone has a genuine interest - a real stake in their own life - they will not willingly forfeit their own thought processes and gut instincts so a counsellor, guide, mentor, or confidant can just tell them how to go about the situation.



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Supporting a Partner in Weight Loss

The single best thing you can provide your partner throughout their weight loss process is Support. Learn some positive ways to show support without nagging, policing, or giving unsolicited advice, but simply offering support at every turn.



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Are They Looking for a Committment?

Unless someone says they want to date you exclusively and work towards a committed relationship, assume they're not. If you're okay with that or willing to enjoy the relationship as it is without quietly building false hope, that's great. If you're looking for a committed relationship you need to openly discuss intentions to prevent future heartache.



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How Trust and Respect Rely On Dignity

Dignity is all about the other person. Our respect relies on our dignifying them. Then they might trust us.



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Relationships: Does Rescuing Others Keep Them Stuck?

At times, one is going to feel the need to help another; either through someone asking for help or as a result of one offering their hand without being asked. And as human beings need help from time to time, it is good thing that there are people like this in the world.



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The Change of Heart in Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a gift of God. A gift can never be bought. We bring to him our willingness - that is all. God does the rest as he wills it.



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Are You Getting Your 12 A Day?

I have recently been very struck by the numbers of couples whom I see for Relationship Coaching who rarely ever touch each other either physically or emotionally. They don't hug each other, express appreciation or words of endearment.



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Your Prayers Can Draw You Closer or Drive You Away From God

A relationship with God grows or dies through our prayers. Here are two points to consider about how you approach Him in prayer, human centered or God centered.



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Trusting Your Heart Whether To Stay Or Go

We may consider ending a relationship based on our thinking, but our hearts end up being the final Adjudicator. Likewise, it's the heart that will commit us to remain, even when things are still quite impossible.



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Is His Behavior Normal?

It takes a miracle to truly change one's mind. This is painfully true about human nature. And it is the best reason not to ignore behavior that is unacceptable or consider it as normal. Because when you do, you have made up your mind about this person... and only a real miracle will change it.



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How to Live With Godly Ambition

Putting God first in your life will give you a blessed life. Learn simple ways how to do this in this crazy, hectic life.



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Maybe It's Your Fault Your Parents Don't Like Your Spouse

How you talk about your spouse could make all the difference in how your parents see your partner. If you tell your parents all the terrible things she or he does, that may be how your parents will treat him of her. Knowing which things it's OK to share with your parents can make it easier on the relationship your parents have with your partner.



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Breaking Up Is Hard to Do: Tips on Getting Through

When going through a breakup with someone whom you have spent many years in a relationship, it can feel like you have no friends and nowhere to go. Many times this is because of the fact you probably spent all of your free time with this person who has chosen to no longer be in your life. If you are going through a divorce, it can be even worse because in addition to building your life around the person who just broke your heart, you may feel like a failure to the people you need most right now.



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The Meaning of Life According to Jim Carrey

THE MEANING OF LIFE is a question that pulsates with either conscious or unconscious purpose within every single one of us. We cannot help but be captivated at some intrinsic level, because we suffer in the body, we experience losses, and many experiences of life are unjust. We all want to be inherently satisfied with life. We all want life to be personally meaningful.



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Should You Stay or Go?

There are a lot of things you may not know about your partner until you move forward, in time, with your relationship. However, it's good to know these things before you commit to a long-term relationship.



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Is She Mrs Right?

For centuries now, or at least for as long as tabloids have been in existence, a copious amount of pages have been dedicated to the failed romances of celebrity couples. Some married for years, some for months and some for only days. This poses a scary question: if famous people can't choose a spouse, how on earth are we expected to?



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A Hole in My Heart

We all experience strife with situations or with people. By wrapping those events in love, metaphorically, we can heal and grow.



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That's A Wrap - Living Life Large!

As we all process what we would like to achieve and gain in this journey called life, it is essential that we stop and take stock honestly of where we have been. Of where the road turned and caused us to miss an important step and what prevents us from finding that still small space within us where we can reorient, revive and refresh our spirits.



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